Learning to become aware of one's own values to be able to cope with value conflicts is an important part of a higher vocational education curriculum. Higher vocational education teachers are used to offering cognitive learning experiences to students to teach them how to deal with value conflicts, disregarding the affective aspect of values. In this qualitative study, we argue that inter-affective learning experiences are needed to encourage students to deal with value conflicts through affective involvement. We had two research questions: (1) How do teachers and students reflect on an inter-affective learning experience that aims to promote interactive affective sharing of a value conflict? and (2) What should characterize guidance for inter-affective learning experiences aimed at promoting interactive affective sharing of a value conflict? The research was carried out at a Dutch University of Applied Science offering higher vocational education programs. Four groups of teachers and two groups of students participated in an inter-affective learning experience about a value conflict, followed by a focus group discussion on the experience with group members. Teachers and students agreed that they need support in learning to sense their own experience of inner feelings. The reflections led to recommendations for guiding students' inter-affective learning experiences to encourage affective involvement in a value conflict.