This study focused on the difficulties and challenges experienced by sons who had absent fathers. The purpose of this qualitative study was to explore the lived experiences of sons who grew up with absent fathers and the effects on them as adults at home, in school, in their neighborhoods, and their decision-making processes. The sample consisted of eight men who grew up with absent fathers. Data were collected using face-to-face, structured and semi-structured interviews. Results indicated that participants' lived experiences of home life were characterized by financial and emotional hardships resulting from not having a father's earnings and care. The meanings or lessons that participants derived from having absent fathers included the importance of being independent, appreciating the people who remained with them, making the best of their situation, and creating a better life for their children. Participants needed their father to be someone to go to for advice, hold them accountable, motivate them, and teach them gender roles. When fathers were unavailable, participants depended on their mothers to meet these needs. Additionally, participants reported that the absence of their fathers impacted their decision-making, relationships, and trusting male authority figures. Participants were also affected in their decision-making patterns by losing a male perspective and a father's guidance. [The dissertation citations contained here are published with the permission of ProQuest LLC. Further reproduction is prohibited without permission. Copies of dissertations may be obtained by Telephone (800) 1-800-521-0600. Web page: http://www.proquest.com/en-US/products/dissertations/individuals.shtml.]